Trip to China, Which China?

August 4th, 2009 by Shuai | Filed under china, trip.

I’m going to visit China for a month in Aug. I do want to post my trip experience here and share it with friends. One thing that I’m sure: this is not the China that I knew! Which China? It is a China that I need to re-define, re-look at, and re-understand!

One thing that I can’t decide: should I write in English or in Chinese?

So, I’ll just follow the flow - let my brain and present feeling to decide which language the post will be written.

Here is the first pre-trip conversation that’s related to my travel and it is in Chinese :)

今天晚上和一个朋友吃饭。他在美国呆了许多年,去年回国创业。这次回到湾区办事情。能在我回国前见个面真的是很好!他给了我些很中听的建议,我总结为 “我是骗子”:

1,不要以为你还是中国人,你已经不是中国人了;中国人都是犹太人

2,把你自己想成是骗子(总要站在对方的立场上考虑问题)。大家都假设对方(或者自己对于对方来说)是骗子;然后慢慢通过了解,通过合作才取得一步步地信任

3,多听,多了解,抱着虚心学习的态度

4,做什么都行,只要闷着头做,都能做出来

最后他又说,“没问题,你前途无限”。我听了大笑。有这样一个朋友真是不错!到了上海争取再和他吃顿饭。哈哈!

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